[The following is an alternative and much shorter ending to a recent sermon that was swamped by an attempt at raising a social justice issue. Regardless of the protective and therapeutic aim of the application of the text in the sermon in question — which in this case was to raise awareness of those who have suffered medical injury — such is often the effect of social justice preaching. The issue overtakes the text and the sermon, puts the listener on the defensive, and fails to frame the proposed remedial action in sufficiently convincing or inviting terms. If the sermon succeeded as a conversation starter, it evidently failed to persuade or meet with many takers of the hope that it set out to offer. Here, then, is perhaps a better way of resolving this troublesome sermon.]
So what does it mean to share in Christ's sufferings?
First, it means recognizing that Jesus already shares in yours. He knows your every sigh, your every moan, your every ache, your every heartbreak. Every painful thing you even wonder about, whether it counts. Yes, it counts, but not in a meritorious way. It counts simply in the sense that Jesus notices and, indeed, he bears all these things with you. When he says, "Take my yoke upon you and learn from me," he is invoking the partnership that a yoke entails. A yoke of oxen is a pair. He walks beside you, sharing your load as you share his. Though we are called to take up our cross and follow Jesus, this does not so much mean following behind him, say, marching up Calvary; it means matching your step to his as you walk your earthly way, sharing the cross-shaped bar of the common yoke, the one you bear with Christ.
Second, it means waiting and persevering. To be patient means to be "long-suffering." It means taking a deep breath and refraining from rash, precipitous action. In a time when people are growing disgusted and weary of so many forms of injustice and seemingly no accountability, the Christian must be ever vigilant, but never a vigilante. "Wait upon the Lord" is a refrain that runs through the Psalter (esp. Psa 37) and the entire canon. Those who wait upon him will inherit the earth, they will mount up on wings like eagles, etc.
Third, to share in Christ's sufferings means com-passion, to "suffer with" others who are suffering. This does not mean seeking suffering for its own sake; it means listening to those in distress, offering whatever divine counsel (from Scripture) is given you in the moment, praying for, but also advocating for those in your sphere, maybe even being a "patient advocate" — patient in a double sense — and standing with them if in no other way than with the ministry of presence. Helplessness shared is not hopeless. But help where you can. Share what wisdom, what simple forms of healing, have come your way. You are not alone, because Christ shares your sufferings. Your presence with the suffering can comfort them with the very same solidarity, not only your own presence, but that of Christ.
How do you understand what it means to share in Christ's sufferings? However you understand it, take comfort in the fact that our bodies and souls are not our own, but they belong to Him who purchased them with his own blood, who owns them now by virtue of his own suffering and death. He will not throw away or cast out anyone for whom he paid such a price of redemptive, merciful, tender ownership. And in the resurrection, we shall have everlasting comfort and peace.